It is never too late to get happily married, due to our preferences and the influence of unavoidable factors, the curious case of delayed marriage has increased. It is difficult to decide at what age it should be considered the curious case of delayed or married at the right age.
At what age marriage is considered a curious case of delayed marriage?
Our life’s decisions are a matter of preference, not principle, we give preference to other matters, and marriage is delayed due to one reason or another.
One of the famous marriage quotes states that “Marriages are made in heaven”.
You should not worry if you have a blissful or happily married life in astrology
1. In my opinion, if one or more of these planets, Jupiter has the special significance of being the husband for the female, Venus has the significance of marriage for male, along with Lagna or Lagna lord are powerful in the birth chartA diagram showing exact position of planets in signs at time of birth of an individual prepared with the help of time, date and place of birth, a person will have a blissful married life.
2. Beneficial planets are posited in Kendra or Trikona in the astrological birth chartA diagram showing exact position of planets in signs at time of birth of an individual prepared with the help of time, date and place of birth with no maleficUnfavorable, opposite of benefic aspect, marriage will not be delayed.
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Unfortunately, due to various unavoidable factors, sometimes there is a delay in marriage. So people often ask the question, why there is a delay in marriage?
What are the preventive measures he or she has to take to avoid any delay?
The answer to this question is not simple and may include many logical factors such as:
1. Unwillingness to marry due to financial problems,
2. The uncertainty of jobs in the IT sector or Multinational companies,
3. Unnecessary delay in starting off a career,
4. The job of the individuals in different locations, inability to taking quick decisions.
5. The preference to build a career. Today, delaying marriage has become an increasing trend among women and men in a career in the United States because they give preference to the building of their careers.
6. But the one mystical factor that could also play a big role in the delay of marriage is astrologyThe study of the influence of celestial bodies on earth and humans compatibility by date of birth, i.e. numerology, sun sign astrologyPrediction based on solar return chart for the day, month and year, mainly used in magazines and newspapers, or horoscopeSynonym of birth chart, prepared with date, time and place of birth of an individual matching.
The present-day reality, in my opinion, is that love cum arranged marriage with the parent’s consent and a quick decision will be the better solution to avoid delay in marriage.
There are many factors I would like to mention here which may cause a delay in the arranged marriage of a person, they are as follows:
Various factors for delayed marriage
These factors for delayed marriage are as follows:
1. Misconception or dilemma about marriage.
2. Overbusy in higher studies. 3. Overbusy in the profession. 4. Over choosy.
5. Highly educated. 6. Extraordinary appearance. 7. Inability to taking a quick decision.
8. Marriage proposals are not satisfactory.
9. Frequent travels to foreign countries for a career.
10. The responsibility of the family members.
11. Physical health problems or illness. 12. Mental depression.
13. Financial problems or debts. 14. The difference in financial status.
15. Class differences in social status and attitudes.
16. Old traditions and superstitions in an arranged marriage. 17. Dowry system in India.
18. Non-tolerance of inter-caste or inter-religion marriages in India.
19. Unemployment.
20. Birthday relationship compatibility.
21. Astrological problems: zodiacHeaven divided into 12 signs, of 30° each compatibility, Kundali matching, or synastryComparing the planets and houses in two partner’s birth charts for love, romance and relationship compatibility problems in the horoscopeSynonym of birth chart, prepared with date, time and place of birth of an individual; the presence of Manglik dosha, Kalatr Dosha, Ganda Mula dosha, Pitra Dosha, or Kaal Sarp Dosha in the astrological birth chartA diagram showing exact position of planets in signs at time of birth of an individual prepared with the help of time, date and place of birth.
Astrological factors for delayed marriage
1. Influence of more than one natural malefic planet on the 7th house:
Sun, Mars, Saturn, RahuDragon’s head, used in Indian Vedic astrology, and KetuDragon’s tail, used in Indian astrology are on the 7th house in the birth chartA diagram showing exact position of planets in signs at time of birth of an individual prepared with the help of time, date and place of birth.
2. Influence of weak or afflicted planets In the seventh house:
Influence of weak, retrogradeWhen a planet is considered moving backwards in astrology A retrograde planet has less energy or strength (Vakri) or planets in combustion(Asta) or planets in Sandhi- Kaal in 7th house in a birth chartA diagram showing exact position of planets in signs at time of birth of an individual prepared with the help of time, date and place of birth.
3. The position of the 7th lord in bad houses or malefic planets in the 7th house:
Lord of maleficUnfavorable, opposite of benefic housesThese are twelve sections of zodiac circle having 360° numbered clockwise Ascendant is known as the first house and the last house is known as the twelfth house Each house represents specific traits used for prediction. posited in 7th house, lord of the 7th house placed in bad housesThese are twelve sections of zodiac circle having 360° numbered clockwise Ascendant is known as the first house and the last house is known as the twelfth house Each house represents specific traits used for prediction. (6th, 8th or 12th house).
4. The aspect (Drishti) of malefic planets on bad houses:
The connection of the 7th house in a native’s birth chartA diagram showing exact position of planets in signs at time of birth of an individual prepared with the help of time, date and place of birth is due to the aspect of maleficUnfavorable, opposite of benefic planets(Sun, Mars, Saturn, RahuDragon’s head, used in Indian Vedic astrology) with the following housesThese are twelve sections of zodiac circle having 360° numbered clockwise Ascendant is known as the first house and the last house is known as the twelfth house Each house represents specific traits used for prediction.:
(i) aspect (Drishti) on the 7th house
(ii) aspect or Drishti on the 8th house.
(iii) aspect on 8th house Lord.
(iv) aspect or Drishti on the 12th house.
5. Kalatr Dosha:
The connection of the 7th house with Saturn, RahuDragon’s head, used in Indian Vedic astrology, Mars, or Sun is due to their position in the 7th house or Kalatr Sthan, which signifies a person’s spouse or marital life.
6. Manglik Dosha:
Mars, Saturn, or RahuDragon’s head, used in Indian Vedic astrology posited in places: 1st, 4th, 7th, 8th or 12th(Manglik dosha in the case of Mars) may be a common cause for late marriage.
7. Pap-Kartari Yoga
AscendantRising of a zodiac sign on the eastern horizon at the time of birth, placed in horoscope of a native, as 1st house is most important in calculation and prediction stronger than the seventh house and either seventh house or seventh house lord hemmed between the Paap Graha (Pap-Kartari Yoga).
8. Kal Sarpa Dosha:
Due to all the planets hemmed between RahuDragon’s head, used in Indian Vedic astrology or KetuDragon’s tail, used in Indian astrology i.e. presence of Kal Sarpa Yoga in the birth chartA diagram showing exact position of planets in signs at time of birth of an individual prepared with the help of time, date and place of birth.
9. Relation of Venus, Moon, or 7th lord with Papgraha in any house:
If weak or ill-placed Moon, Venus, or the seventh lord having their connection with RahuDragon’s head, used in Indian Vedic astrology, KetuDragon’s tail, used in Indian astrology, Saturn, or Mars are present in the birth chartA diagram showing exact position of planets in signs at time of birth of an individual prepared with the help of time, date and place of birth of the nativeOne who takes birth, this word is used for astrology purpose, marriage may be delayed.
10. Shani Sade Sati or transit of planets:
TransitMovement of planets in the sky in real time of planets in unfavorable housesThese are twelve sections of zodiac circle having 360° numbered clockwise Ascendant is known as the first house and the last house is known as the twelfth house Each house represents specific traits used for prediction. may play an important role in delayed marriage:
11. Dasha or Antardasha of unfavorable planets or Papgraha in progress:
Planetary Dasha or Antardasha of RahuDragon’s head, used in Indian Vedic astrology, Saturn, or lord of the 8th house is in Progress.
12. Impact of Ganda Mula or Ati Ganda Mula Nakshatra:
If any of the following Ganda Mula Nakshatra are present in a horoscopeSynonym of birth chart, prepared with date, time and place of birth of an individual:
Ashwini, Ashlesha, Magha, Mula, Jyestha, Revati.
13. Pitra Dosha:
Pitra Dosha is also a factor for delayed marriage.
14. Zodiac compatibility, Synastry or Kundali matching:
If synastryComparing the planets and houses in two partner’s birth charts for love, romance and relationship compatibility or Kundali matching is not proper.
15. Debilitated Venus :
Weak and DebilitatedA planet posited in specific degrees in a sign with fall in power and energy is known as its debilitated sign. This is the 7th sign from the sign of exaltation and opposite to exalted Venus posited in the sign Virgo in any house.
16. Afflicted Venus in Navamsa:
AfflictedA planet having unfavorable aspect Venus in Navamsa Chart
17. Afflicted fifth house:
An afflictedA planet having unfavorable aspect fifth house, the house for children, in a native’s horoscopeSynonym of birth chart, prepared with date, time and place of birth of an individual, shows the delay in birth of children, which is also a factor for delayed marriage
18. Role of the 2nd house, the house associated with family matters:
If the 2nd house is occupied by maleficUnfavorable, opposite of benefic planets or the moon conjuncts Saturn in the 2nd house with no aspect of beneficPlanets having natural beneficial and positive influences, opposite to malefic planets(Shubh Grah) such as the planet Jupiter, there are chances of delayed marriage.
Detailed analysis of seventh house problems (Kaletra Dosha) for Delayed marriage:
Here I am making an attempt to reveal some detailed astrological reasons for delayed marriage, one of the important Dosha is known as Kalathra Dosha:
Role of 7th house which is associated with the marriage, married life of a person or the 7th house lord in one or more following combinations:
1. Placement of malefic planets in 7th house:
Planets in the 7th House and there is no auspicious planet (Shubh Graha) present in Kendra or Trikona:
Astrological studies suggest that the placement of one or more maleficUnfavorable, opposite of benefic planets i.e. Mars, RahuDragon’s head, used in Indian Vedic astrology, or KetuDragon’s tail, used in Indian astrology in the 7th house is one of the major reasons for delayed marriage. Also, the placement of the Sun in the 7th house indicates a late marriage.
2. Saturn, afflicted by malefic planets
If the planet Saturn is posited in the 7th house, afflictedA planet having unfavorable aspect by other maleficUnfavorable, opposite of benefic planets, have no auspicious aspect of Shubh Graha, the effects are as follows:
i) When the planet Saturn combines with the moon and the sun in the 7th house with no beneficial planetary aspect, then a delay in marriage is said to be on the cards.
ii) Another factor that could lead to delayed marriage is when Saturn is placed in the 7th house from the Sun, it forms a “Samsaptak yoga” with the Sun and there is no favorable aspect.
iii) Additionally, another reason for a delayed marriage could be due to Saturn and Moon forming Samsaptak Yoga or combining together in the 7th house in a birth chartA diagram showing exact position of planets in signs at time of birth of an individual prepared with the help of time, date and place of birth or Janam Kundli.
There are other reasons such as when the birth moon is posited with the maleficUnfavorable, opposite of benefic planet Saturn in the 7th house and the 7th lord is placed in the 12th house, a delayed marriage may be predicted.
Also if the 5th house lord and the 7th house lord mutually aspect each other or conjunctTwo planets posited close together, in the same sign together and there is no aspect of the Shubh Graha, then a love marriage or an inter-caste marriage may be predicted with some problems, though delayed.
3. Effect of planet Venus:
If the planet Venus is debilitatedA planet posited in specific degrees in a sign with fall in power and energy is known as its debilitated sign. This is the 7th sign from the sign of exaltation and opposite to exalted or conjuncts the sun (Venus in combustion) and the moon in the 7th house a late marriage is certainly on the cards. The possibility of late marriage is even indicated when:
Planet Venus or the 7th house is in “Paap Kartari Yoga” (hemmed between Papgraha).
Also, it is said that Venus is an enemy of the sun and the moon. Therefore if Venus is placed with the maleficUnfavorable, opposite of benefic planets in the sign of the sun or the moon, i.e. Leo and Cancer then a possibility of a delayed marriage may be predicted.
So with the reasons behind a delayed marriage being spelled out, the question to be asked is what are the remedies to this problem?
Ways to get married quickly, some simple remedies for delayed marriage
Actually, it is never too late to have a happy marriage.
Firstly, if various Vedic mantras, Durga Shaptashati or Hanuman Chalisa are available, one should recite them daily, if possible.
You can Worship and pray to Ganesha, Lord Shiva, and Goddess Parvati or Lord Krishna, especially keep fast and offer Jal (holy water) to Shivalinga on Mondays in the month of Shravan or on Maha Shivaratri.
Do charity or donation (Daan) in form of food(Anna) and clothes (Vastra) to needy persons, these are good Karma, and can also help in removing all kinds of Dosha and the issues of delayed marriage.
Pitra Dosha remedies for delayed marriage
Pitra Dosha remedies are also helpful. Consult a good astrologer. You should not waste too much of your hard-earned money on performing Puja and Dakshina. Just keep away from an imposter(cheater), instead.
Remedies for Mangal Dosha
If the delay is due to the Manglik Dosha you should do the remedies for Mangal Dosha (Mars).
If the present ruling Mahadasha or Antardasha is favorable in the horoscopeSynonym of birth chart, prepared with date, time and place of birth of an individual/ the planetary transits are favorable or your sun signs are matching in both the horoscopes, you should immediately try to avail the opportunity with positive thinking and try your best to find a suitable partner.
I would recommend you to take the decision at the right time. Find a suitable partner, choose a Shubh Vivah Muhurat when you are going through the favorable planetary transits and the auspicious Dasha and Antardasha periods.
Lastly, you should not miss the opportunity, move ahead to enjoy marital bliss by God’s grace, during a favorable period.
