At what age marriage is considered the curious case of delayed marriage? Our life’s decisions are a matter of preference, not the principle, we give preference to other matters, marriage is delayed due to one reason or another.
It is difficult to decide at what age a marriage should be considered delayed marriage or marriage at the right age.
It is never too late to have a happy marriage. An old English adage states that “Marriages are made in heaven”.
You should not worry if you have a blissful life in astrology
1. In my opinion, if one or more of these planets Jupiter, the significator of marriage for female, Venus the significator of marriage for male, Mercury, and Lagna or Lagna lord are powerful.
2. Planets having natural beneficial and positive influences, opposite to malefic planets are posited in Kendra or Trikona in the astrological A diagram showing exact position of planets in signs at time of birth of an individual prepared with the help of time, date and place of birth with no Unfavorable, opposite of benefic aspect, marriage will not be delayed.
Unfortunately, due to various factors marriages can sometimes be delayed. So the question to be asked is why marriages get delayed and what preventive measures are needed to be taken to avoid any delay?
The answer to this question is not simple and may include many logical factors such as:
1. Unwillingness to marry due to the financial problems,
2. The uncertainty of jobs in the IT sector or Multinational companies,
3. Unnecessary delay in starting off a career,
4.The job of the individuals in different locations, inability in taking quick decision.
5.The preference to build a career. Today, delaying marriage has become an increasing trend among women and men in a career in the United States because they give preference to the building of their career.
6. But the one mystical factor that could also play a big role in the delay of marriage is The study of the influence of celestial bodies on earth and humans compatibility by date of birth.
The present-day reality, in my opinion, is that love cum arranged marriage with the parent’s consent will be the better solution to avoid delay in marriage.
There are many factors I would like to mention here which may cause a delay in the arranged marriage of a person, they are as follows:
Various factors for delayed marriage
1. Misconception or dilemma about marriage
2. Over busy in higher studies
3. Over busy in the profession
4. Over choosy
5. Highly educated
6. Extraordinary appearance.
7. Inability in taking a quick decision
8. Marriage proposals are not satisfactory
9. Frequent travels to foreign countries for career
10. The responsibility of the family members
11.Physical health problems or illness
13. Financial problems or debts
14.The difference in financial status
15.Class differences in social status and attitudes
16.Old traditions and superstitions in an arranged marriage.
18.Non-tolerance of inter-caste or inter-religion marriages in India.
19.Dowry system in India.
20.Astrological problems: Heaven divided into 12 signs, of 30° each compatibility, Kundali matching or Comparing the planets and houses in two partner’s birth charts for love, romance and relationship compatibility problems in the Synonym of birth chart, prepared with date, time and place of birth of an individual; the presence of Manglik dosha, Kalathra Dosha, Ganda Mula dosha, Pitra Dosha or Kaal Sarp Dosha in astrological birth-chart.
20.Birthday relationship compatibility
Astrological factors for delayed marriage
1.Influence of more than one natural malefic planets on the 7th house:
Sun, Mars, Saturn, Dragon’s head, used in Indian Vedic astrology, Dragon’s tail, used in Indian astrology on the 7th house in the birth chart.
2.Influence of weak or afflicted planets:
Influence of weak, retrograde(Vakri) or planets in combustion(Asta) or planets in Sandhi- Kaal in 7th house in a birth chart.
3.The position of 7th lord in bad houses or malefic planets in 7th house:
Lord of malefic These are twelve sections of zodiac circle having 360° numbered clockwise Ascendant is known as the first house and the last house is known as the twelfth house Each house represents specific traits used for prediction. posited in 7th house, lord of the 7th house placed in bad houses(6th, 8th or 12th house).
4.The aspect (Drishti) of malefic planets on bad houses:
The connection of 7th house in a native’s birth chart, due to the aspect of malefic planets(Sun, Mars, Saturn, Rahu) with the following houses:
(i) aspect (Drishti) on the 7th house
(ii) aspect or Drishti on the 8th house.
(iii) aspect on 8th house Lord.
(iv) aspect or Drishti on the 12th house.
The connection of 7th house with Saturn, Rahu, Mars or Sun due to their position in 7th house or Kalathra Sthan, which signifies a person’s spouse or marital life.
Mars, Saturn or Rahu posited in places: 1st, 4th, 7th, 8th or 12th(Manglik dosha in case of Mars) may be a common cause for a late marriage.
Rising of a zodiac sign on the eastern horizon at the time of birth, placed in horoscope of a native, as 1st house is most important in calculation and prediction stronger than the seventh house and either seventh house or seventh house lord hemmed between the Paap Grahas(Paap Kartari Yoga).
8.Kal Sarpa Dosha:
Due to all the planets hemmed between Rahu or Ketu i.e. presence of Kal Sarpa Yoga in the birth chart.
9.Relation of Venus, Moon or 7th lord with Papgraha in any house:
If weak or ill-placed Moon, Venus or seventh lord having their connection with Rahu, Ketu, Saturn or Mars are present in the birth chart of the One who takes birth, this word is used for astrology purpose, marriage may be delayed.
10.Shani Sade Sati or transit of planets:
Movement of planets in the sky in real time of planets in unfavorable houses may play an important role in delayed marriage:
11.Dasha or Antardasha of unfavorable planets or Papagraha in progress:
Planetary Dasha or Antardasha of Rahu, Saturn, or lord of 8th house is in Progress.
12.Impact of Ganda Mula or Ati Ganda Mula Nakshatra:
If any of the following Ganda Mula Nakshatra are present in a horoscope:
Ashwini, Ashlesha, Magha, Mula, Jyestha, Revati.
Pitra Dosha is also a factor for delayed marriage.
14.Zodiac compatibility, Synastry or Kundali matching:
If synastry or Kundali matching is not proper.
15.Debilitated Venus :
Weak and A planet posited in specific degrees in a sign with fall in power and energy is known as its debilitated sign. This is the 7th sign from the sign of exaltation and opposite to exalted Venus posited in the sign Virgo in any house.
16.Afflicted Venus in Navamsa:
A planet having unfavorable aspect Venus in Navamsa Chart
17.Afflicted fifth house:
An afflicted fifth house, the house for children, in a native’s horoscope, shows the delay in birth of children, is also a factor for delayed marriage
18.Role of the 2nd house, the house associated with family matters:
If the 2nd house is occupied by malefic planets or moon conjuncts Saturn in the 2nd house with no aspect of benefic planets(Shubh Grah) such as the planet Jupiter, there are chances of delayed marriage.
Detailed analysis of seventh house problems (Kalathra Dosha) for Delayed marriage:
Here I am making an attempt to reveal some detailed astrological reasons for delayed marriage, one of the important Dosha is known as Kalathra Dosha:
Role of 7th house which is associated with the marriage, married life of a person or the 7th house lord in one or more following combinations:
1.Placement of malefic planets in 7th house:
Planets in the 7th House and there is no auspicious planet (Shubh Graha) present in Kendra or Trikona:
As per astrological studies suggests that the placement of one or more malefic planets i.e. Mars, Rahu or Ketu in the 7th house is one of the major reasons for a delayed marriage. Also, the placement of the Sun in the 7th house indicates a late marriage.
2.Saturn, afflicted by malefic planets
If the planet Saturn is posited in 7th house, afflicted by other malefic planets, have no auspicious aspect of Shubh Graha, effects are as follows:
i) When the planet Saturn combines with the moon and the sun in the 7th house with no benefic planetary aspect, then a delay in marriage is said to be on the cards.
ii) Another factor that could lead to delayed marriage is when Saturn is placed in the 7th house from the Sun, it forms a “Samsaptak yoga” with the Sun and there is no favorable aspect.
iii) Additionally, another reason for a delayed marriage could be due to Saturn and Moon forming Samsaptak Yoga or combining together in the 7th house in a birth chart or Janam Kundli.
There are other reasons such as when the birth moon is posited with the malefic planet Saturn in the 7th house and the 7th lord is placed in the 12th house, a delayed marriage may be predicted.
Also if the 5th house lord and the 7th house lord mutually aspect each other or Two planets posited close together, in the same sign together and there is no aspect of the Shubh Graha, then a love marriage or an inter-caste marriage may be predicted with some problems, though delayed.
3.Effect of planet Venus:
If the planet Venus is debilitated or conjuncts the sun (Venus in combustion) and the moon in 7th house a late marriage is certainly on the cards. The possibility of late marriage is even indicated when:
Planet Venus or the 7th house is in “Paap Kartari Yoga” (hemmed between Papgraha).
Also, it is said that Venus is an enemy of the sun and the moon. Therefore if Venus is placed with the malefic planets in the sign of the sun or the moon, i.e. Leo and Cancer then a possibility of a delayed marriage may be predicted.
So with the reasons behind a delayed marriage being spelled out, the question to be asked is what are the remedies to this problem?
Ways to get married quickly, some simple remedies for delayed marriage
It is never too late to have a happy marriage.
Firstly, if various Vedic mantra, Durga Shaptashati or Hanuman Chalisa are available, one should recite daily, if possible.
You can Worship and pray to Ganesha, Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvati or Lord Krishna, especially keep fast and offer Jal (holy water) to Shivalinga on Mondays in the month of Shravan or on Maha Shivaratri.
Do charity or donation (Daan) in form of food(Anna) and clothes (Vastra) to needy persons, these are good Karma, can also help in removing all kinds of Dosha and the issues of delayed marriage.
Pitra Dosha remedies for delayed marriage
Pitra Dosha remedies are also helpful. You should not waste too much of your hard earned money for performing Puja and Dakshina, just keep away from an imposter(Dhongi), instead.
Remedies for Mangal Dosha
If the delay is caused due to the Manglik Dosha you should do the remedies for Mangal Dosha (Mars).
If the present ruling Mahadasha or Antardasha are favorable in the horoscope/ the planetary transits are favorable or your sun signs are matching in both the horoscopes, you should immediately try to avail the opportunity with positive thinking and try your best to find the suitable partner.
I would recommend you to take the decision at the right time and find a suitable partner, choose a Shubh Vivah Muhurat when you are going through the favorable planetary transits and the auspicious Dasha and Antardasha periods.
You should not miss the opportunity, move ahead to enjoy marital bliss during a favorable period.